A marriage proposal can lead to much happiness, but it also can mean having to purchase an expensive engagement ring and, subsequently, getting into debt. If the diamond industry has anything to say about your engagement ring purchase, youâ€™ll spend anywhere from one to three monthsâ€™ salary on a diamond engagement ring (an average of $4,000).
However, a little forethought and some creativity can lead to significant savings and even a debt-free engagement ring. Think of it this way: It can be far more romantic to propose with a paid-for ring than to drag the equivalent of a car payment into your marriage. Hereâ€™s how you can purchase that ring without breaking your bank.
1. The first step you should take in the ring-buying process is setting a realistic budget for yourself. Donâ€™t just go shopping with no maximum price in mind, as that may lead to you making a purchase you canâ€™t really afford. If you know what you want to spend beforehand, and make sure you stick to that, you are already showing the kind of discipline that can help you avoid serious debt.
Jewelry passed from generation-to-generation denotes sentimentality and fiscal prudence. Ask your family, or your future spouseâ€™s family, if they have any heirlooms they would like to pass on. Keep in mind: Heirloom jewelry will be free, but the service and upgrades can run from a few hundred to several thousand dollars. If you do obtain an heirloom ring, consider these three options.
2. Leave the ring intact (except for resizing and repair).
3. Create a new setting for an heirloom diamond.
4. Incorporate a new band into the old ring design.
Real diamonds are never truly inexpensive, but knowing what and when to buy can save you a bundle.
5. Shop in the summertime. Because winter proposals are very popular (think Valentineâ€™s Day), it can make a lot more financial sense to buy your diamond in the off-season. The summer months can offer stable pricing at a discount.
6. Buy diamonds shy of critical weights. If you want a full-carat diamond, look for something around .9 carats instead. Youâ€™ll get close to the same look at a nice discount.
7. Look before you buy. Compare diamonds at various areas of the color and clarity spectrum. If you canâ€™t tell the difference in the diamondâ€™s appearance, choose the less-expensive option. Also be sure to comparison shop at different retailers; donâ€™t just go with the first ring you love, as you may find something very similar, for less, at another shop.
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8. Choose synthetic diamonds. Diamonds created in labs share the same properties as mined diamonds, but they cost up to 75% less than traditional diamonds, and they are a great choice for those seeking to avoid conflict diamonds.
9. Replace a diamond with moissanite. A gemologist will never tell you this, but moissanite (a synthetic material) is harder than diamonds, and it surpasses diamonds on clarity and color scales, too. Itâ€™s not a valuable gem, but it is beautiful. (Pro tip: Ask your future spouse before you go this route. Many people do prefer authenticity.)
10. Pick an alternative gemstone. Pearls or jade are popular choices outside of the United States, and garnet and topaz are gaining popularity stateside. If you want something out of the ordinary, consider alternative gemstones, but be aware that some gemstones are actually even more expensive than diamonds.
11. Skip gemstones altogether. Ornamental rings (especially knots) are popular choices for those who want to skip traditional gemstones. Handcrafted gold rings can be purchased for as little as $200 on Etsy.
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12. Wooden rings: Wooden engagement rings occupy a large niche in the market, and can be a cost-effective alternative to precious metals. Wooden rings run anywhere from $50 for simple bands to several thousand dollars for rings that include ornate details and gemstones.
13. Tattooed rings: Some couples chose to get tattoos instead of rings, citing that nothing says forever quite like a tattoo. Keep in mind that this may be a dangerous option, as you will have a much harder time removing a tattoo than a ring if your relationship ends (either before or after the marriage).
14. Leather rings: Leather rings can include braiding, engraving and colored beads, among other stylings, and will certainly save you a bundle as compared to a diamond. If you donâ€™t want to go with real leather, faux leather can work as well.
15. Go dutch. If the ring in question is outside of your price range, consider asking your sweetheart to split the cost with you. As youâ€™ll be combining finances after youâ€™re married, this may actually lead to some great money-focused conversations.
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16. Propose with costume jewelry. If you think you can save up for the real ring by the time of your wedding, an inexpensive piece of costume jewelry may be just right for the proposal.
17. Build as you go. Start with a simple band and stone, and add more or bigger gems for anniversary milestones, or upgrade when you can afford it.
Consider buying a ring that already has a history. You can have the ring professionally cleaned to give it new beauty and make it â€śyours.â€ť
18. Visit pawn shops. You may be buying the ring of a recent divorcee, but the savings can be irresistible.
19. Search estate sales. If you regularly shop estate sales, you might uncover some a vintage ring at a spectacular price. Rings that arenâ€™t presented with a certificate of authenticity will give you room to negotiate on price, but you may still accidentally buy overpriced junk. This technique is best for people with an eye for authenticity.
20. Shop on eBay. Pre-owned rings from eBay can represent about a 30% discount over identical new rings, and many owners provide certificates of authenticity.
Whether youâ€™ll spend a few hundred dollars or thousands, an engagement ring doesnâ€™t have to mean big debt. Consider a few creative ways to save the cash you need to pay for a ring in full.
21. Sell your memorabilia. Your partner may not be too enthusiastic about your KISS memorabilia, or your 27 signed hockey jerseys. Selling these to help pay for an engagement ring will be a double sign of your love.
22. Save up, way in advance. If youâ€™re not currently in a serious relationship, but you think youâ€™re the marrying kind, consider setting aside some cash for a future ring purchase. While some people may find this a strange thing to do, there is no harm in being over-prepared. If you donâ€™t end up using the money to buy a ring, it will be on-hand for other potential purchases (think a wonderful vacation, or a luxury item you really want).
23. Get a side hustle. People are increasingly taking on side hustles to earn extra cash, even if they have full-time jobs. This can include selling your artistic creations on Etsy, becoming an Uber or Lyft driver or writing freelance articles. Then you can put all the extra money you earn into an account for a ring.
It is definitely ideal to be able to purchase an engagement ring without going into debt at all. However, if you simply have to finance at least part of the ringâ€™s purchase, you might consider a personal loan, as you may be able to get a better interest rate than with a credit card, depending on your own credit and where you are able obtain your loan.
Getting married can be an expensive undertaking, and you donâ€™t want to put yourself in a difficult financial place just by purchasing the engagement ring. Keep in mind the alternatives to the traditional pricey diamond, and also remember that the love you share with your partner should be far more important than buying a ring with a sky-high price tag. Avoiding debt as much as you can also means youâ€™ll be starting off your new marriage on a financially healthy note.
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